There are a lot of things you should consider if you want to make yourself noticed in the eyes of women nowadays. The key is in you, and it has nothing to do with the way you look or how rich you are, but it does, however, have something to do with self-esteem and confidence. Here are 10 tricks that will make you irresistible in the eyes of women.
1. Be yourself!
The most important thing is to be yourself, always. Maybe this sounds cliche but it is the truth. Nobody will like someone who is fake. If you really want to be with someone, you won’t try to be someone else at the beginning. Believe us, there is no better version of yourself, than your true self. Every person is unique in his own way, and what you should do is try to take advantage of your qualities. Ask yourself what is it that makes you better or different than others, and try to play this card more often.
2. Be funny!
Do you have a sense of humor? If you don’t, work on it. Nothing attracts people better than a good sense of humor which can help lift up a tense atmosphere. Not all people can see the funny part in a situation, and it is nice to have someone besides you that knows how to joke or have fun once in a while. However, don’t make a joke out of everything, and don’t make fun of others. Remember to always be polite if the situation requires it, but never refrain from smiling.
3. Be charming!
Charm is something that not all of us are born with, but luckily, it is something we can learn. Charm is what helps men get the most irresistible girls, and it is something that comes from within. Have you ever heard of the phrase: „He’s got that I-don’t-know-what that makes him irresistible ? Well that something, can be anything. Try to think about your strengths and weaknesses. Be polite, always smile with your eyes, also be reserved and calm in any situation. A charming man is one who doesn’t need the appreciation of others around him to acknowledge his value.
4. Eye contact!
Eyes are the first thing people see when they look at another person, and they can say a lot about our personality. You can say a lot of things only by looking, or not looking at someone. The most important thing is to have a pleasant look. This means that you have to sleep, and even if you are a man, you have to take care of your eyes. When you smile, smile with your entire face, and when you are trying to get a girl to like you, look deep in her eyes. Eye contact is a sign of confidence and dominance, and women respond very well to a powerful man.
5. Be polite!
We are passed the age when trashy talk and a rebellious attitude were considered sexy. Society has changed, and empowered women are looking for responsible and reliable men who haven’t forgotten what the term chivalry stands for .When you are on a date, open the door for her, help her sit, don’t ask uncomfortable questions and walk her to her house if you feel that she would like you to.
6. Less talk, more attitude!
Most men think that women can be seduced with beautiful words, but this is why many contradictions appear. Most men use lame pick-up lines, which make women feel uncomfortable. Silence, is usually golden, and we can assure you that a woman will not be amazed by a cheesy line. A mysterious, elegant sense of humor and powerful attitude is the better approach, and it will guarantee success.
7. Put yourself first!
Many people make the mistake of thinking that they need someone in their life in order to be complete, and if something goes wrong on a date they usually think that it’s their fault. This isn’t at all true, because we are all unique and wonderful beings. Our happiness has much to do with the love relationship with ourselves. This means that if you don’t love yourself, you will never be happy. A man who loves and respects himself is ten times more attractive than an insecure one.
8. Learn how to pick her up!
There are many ways to pick up a girl, some good, some not so good. Don’t miss out on the chance to get a beautiful girl because you don’t know how to talk to her, or how to bedazzle her. You might want to remember what your mother told you when you were younger: treat women with the respect they deserve. This is true, but not entirely. Of course, you have to always be a gentleman with them, but sometimes you have to also be bad in order to succeed.
9. Be intelligent!
Statistically, women are more attracted to intelligent men, and intelligence is considered an important sexual stimulant. A man who has something to say in a conversation, and who will be able to react in certain situations will attract girls. However, don’t try to play the smarty pants by starting conversations about Einstein and the relativity theory. You aren’t a human dictionary, and you don’t have to make her feel inferior. What you want is to be is a native and educated intellectual.
10. Sexually Irresistible!
As important as a powerful personality is your power of attraction, and by this I am referring to the physical one. You don’t have to be Orlando Bloom in order to seduce a girl, all you need is the right attitude. Women put a lot of price on emotions and possession. For example, if you show her that other women are as taken by you as she is, she will definitely want to get you in bed faster.
We hope that these tips will help you become more successful with women, and if you keep in mind some of the things we talked about you will also become a better man. The art of seduction isn’t difficult as long as you have a powerful personality and a lot of confidence. If you aren’t very confident in your own forces you can always work on it.