1. Be Cool
Try and stay cool and don’t get too nervous when you are dating a girl you like. If your palms are sweaty and you can’t catch your breath, just try and relax and breathe in and out slowly until you relax. Make sure you don’t do this fast, as you might get just the opposite and manage to get you even more nervous.
2. Show affection
Try and spend at least 5 minutes with the person that you love, 5 minutes cuddling or just showing affection one to another. Hug her while she is doing the dishes or just ask how her day was and it was if it was a bad one, just hold her hand and support her even without saying anything. If you are not a romantic person don’t worry, you just need to show her that your care.
3. Don’t try to take advantage of the situation.
If she offers to do some chores and you know she’s had a bad day at work and she’s just trying to be nice to you, don’t let her do it. Try and help her as much as you can with the cooking and cleaning because this will turn out to be a win win situation. As soon as you both finish doing the chores, you can have a bubble bath together and make her relaxed by rubbing her feet afterwards with baby oil. Remind her she’s attractive even if she has fluff bunnies in her hair after cleaning underneath your desk.
4. Respect her individuality
Remember that every woman needs to feel independent and feel like she is in control. Respect her and if she needs special girl nights or she likes to go shopping with you, show patience and try and have together.
5. Stay calm in the face of drama.
Even if things become complicated and she’s having a rough time at work, you still need to be supportive. When she comes home thinking of how horrible the next day at work will be, try and offer to wash the dishes and don’t pick a fight with her. Even if she starts screaming about tiny unimportant things that you didn’t do right in the house, try and pay attention to her and apologize if needed. The best thing you can do in situations like these is to take her shoulders in your arms and tell her she is just having a bad day. Be nice and understanding and she will appreciate it later.
6. Be conscious of how often you see her and speak with her.
Don’t forget important conversations that you had or special dates. Also try and keep record of the time spend together and what activities you usually do together. This way you will be able to tell what she would like to do in certain moods and propose to do those things. For example if you know gardening makes her relaxed, invite her in the garden if she is complaining of a hard day or if you fell she is tense. She will actually thank you for it.
7. Feel free on telling her how you feel about her
Don’t be afraid to tell her what you feel about her, even if it’s not a special occasion. Tell her how she makes you feel when she wears a nice dress and when do you feel happy next to her. Show her respect and admiration for the attractive woman that she is and never forget to hold her hand if she wants to and if smile to her even when she is upset. Be always positive and cheerful but learn to listen when she needs a shoulder to cry on.
8. Be a gentleman
Compliment her every chance you get but don’t overdo it. Be attentive to details, if she changes her hair color or buys a new dress, a pair of new shoes or changes her nail polish. Also compliment her intellect by laughing at her jokes if they are good ones, and try and emphasize her positive work abilities as well. Try to make her feel confident with herself.
9. Upgrade your relationship
Try and imagine your relationship as a forever growing garden. You need to take care of your garden, water it, and don’t let bad plants interfere. In a relationship, you need to pay attention on how it evolves and what can be improved.
10. Laughter and safety
Girls want men to make them giggle and to always surprise them through smart jokes and thoughts. Make her feel she is safe near you, but not dependent. Also make her laugh whenever you get the chance. She will feel safe and entertained and she will always enjoy your company.
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