Many people have a hard time when finding a partner. No matter if they are searching for the love o their life or just want it have a good time while going out, all people use attraction methods either if they know it or not. For those who don’t do so good when it comes to talking to a person of the opposite sex, psychology gives a hand explaining what exactly happens when somebody feels attracted to someone else.
10. Just say Hi!
Just by going out there and saying “Hi!” to a person will instantaneously give you a head start! Smiling and just saying a word will make the person not only look at you but you will also notice you as an individual interested in him or her. And don’t just go out there and say the word, smile! Don’t rush, keep the personal space and smile comfortably.
9. Introduce yourself
When shaking hand and introducing yourself to a person, don’t just squeeze your hand and say your name. Take his or her hand into yours and hold it gently. Say your name first them ask for theirs and complement their name. this would be the time to gently end the hand shake but as you do so, slightly touch the other persons palm with your fingers, as if you were massaging the hand with your fingers for no more than a couple of seconds. This actually will send out a trigger to the brain, make the person your are interacting with feel more comfortable with you.
8. Remember the name
This is actually a good way of connecting with someone. After the introduction, make sure you remember the name correctly. Repeat it with a calm sunny voice if you didn’t understand it for the first place and use the persons name along the conversation flow. Every time you will call out to the person by saying his or her name you will again make the person fell more comfortable. Don’t overdo it may become a turnoff.
7. Ask something Nice
So let’s rewind. So far you know the other person’s name you also got him or her attention. The best thing to do at this point is to start a normal, positive conversation. Start buy just asking a question about anything that might cross your mind at that point. The only rule is to continue smiling and ask something positive in order to make a further connection with that person. “Do you know where the closest Chinese restaurant is?” or say something about the weather, like “Rainy days are perfect for sitting home and watching a movie don’t you agree?” No matter what the answer to your question will be, immediately smile and make a compliment regarding something not so obvious like shoes and jewelry. Then just smile again.
If the person you are interested in starts a conversation with you, this is the perfect opportunity to make him or her notice you and consolidate that comfort feeling. Start from the answer that the person offered and repeat it, smiling and then adding your own feedback. This will not only show you are interested but it will also prove to the subconstient of the other person that you were actually listening. So smile, listen, repeat and then add your own contribution to the discussion.
5. Sexual Triggers
When feeling attracted to someone you can simply show your feeling and make the other person respond back in the same manner by creating sexual comfort. The way to do this is simple. Both women and men can get interested in someone if they receive certain stimuli. For example, looking at a girls lips and just smiling will make her is a strong sexual trigger. When it comes to men, studies regarding physical attraction revealed that a man is particularly interested in women that boost his ego. This can be simply achieved through a compliment regarding the clothes and the body shape should do the trick.
4. Simple gestures
Touching the hair of a girl will actually get her interested in the man doing this. By touching the hair of a girl we don’t mean messing with it or ruining her hair, a simple stroke through the hair starting from the back of the neck and gently touching the hair, feeling its texture can get a girl interested in a matter of seconds. This little gesture helps build comfort. Why is this important? Because building comfort leads to better communication and this leads to a second date.
3. How to dress
When it comes to attracting the right pair of eyes, the way you dress is a major influencing factor. Pea-cocking or fashionable looks can work, but the best way is to keep it simple. Wear the clothes that fit you and make you look good. Also, feeling confident and having the right attitude is the key. Small details such as a bracelet that merely shows underneath the sleeve or a discrete medallion tend to catch people’s attention more than a brightly colored dress or make-up. Let the details do the tricks and keep is simple.
After the conversation is set, having a relaxed attitude while is the right path towards something more. Now that you are talking, you want to send out the message that you are psychical interested in that person. Start by building up more and more intimacy. Touching the person’s back gently, touching their arm, knee or any safe area will lead to sexul tension. If the person says nothing or just smiles and does not reject the strokes then you can prepare for the next step:
1. The Kiss
As soon as you know the person is feeling comfortable and you received good feedback you can try to kiss the person. If you try to kiss someone and the person is not ready for that, you can try again later on. The most important thing is that you let the other know that you are not pressuring. It is also a good idea to let them kiss you, by creating a close situation. Also, getting your face next to her or his face from the side (while admiring the perfume or the earrings ) can be a good opportunity for a kiss.